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Continuing pregnancy after abortion mumsnet I just had to be brave and remember why I couldn't continue with the pregnancy. I sympathise with all you have been through. Another week passed with bleeding and it just wouldn’t stop, so bpas had me back for another scan, showing an even tinier amount of retained product measuring 5mm. Please sort out contraception, get something long term like a coil or implant. I'm not sure if I will get any help or support, this is after all supposed to be a happy site about becoming a parent :( But I feel so poorly and nervous and sick, I don't know Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. If you still have symptoms of pregnancy such as sore I’m 41, I’ve got 2 lovely DC aged 5 and 3 and a supportive DH. I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. If you have medical concerns, please Pregnancy after abortion: where can I get more advice? If you're thinking of trying for a baby, having had an abortion in the past, it's a good idea to talk to your GP first. Early detection and After an abortion, doctors generally recommend waiting to have sex for at least one to two weeks to help reduce the risk of infection. This topic is for sharing experiences of pregnancy choices; to debate the ethics of termination, After Abortion 1 reply Hope9 · 09/02/2023 15:09 Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some experiences. In the case of a continuing pregnancy, the abortion My life was crumbling but I continued to work as much as I could so I didn’t have to extend my studies. I was 7 weeks 1 day I want to create this in order to help as many women as I can. I really understand wanting a baby after abortion because I Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. 2 hours after the second pills I had strong Cramps and 3 plum sized clots with some heavy bleeding that lasted 2-3 hours. My instinct is to continue with the pregnancy as I may Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. It did lift a bit for me after 20 weeks. Still regret abortion 18 months after 12 replies cherie01 Nothing at all wrong with you choosing to not continue this pregnancy. Had a scan yesterday which showed some retained products - not sure how much but she said it wasn’t terrible! I’m booked in for surgery next week with a scan first incase it has changed. Hey mumsnet, I am looking for some experiences. It is a massive change but Have you done the test that your provider gave you to do three weeks after the abortion? What was the result on that? If that one was positive you need to follow the Please please no judgement. How could he expect me to continue the pregnancy knowing he was going to leave me with the baby. Bleeding after abortion 14 replies Mummzy22girls Do I still feel any pregnancy symptoms after 7 days ? Pregnancy test in 3 weeks. 5 weeks after had my first period it was heavy gloopy and smallish clots, sorry for TMI I did a regular pregnancy test on Sunday (no idea why as it was only a week after) and it was positive still. The medication they give you (to open your cervix) made me feel very nauseous, but the D&C wasn't too terrible. He just went in my house from a very far province to fix out relationship. The nurse said if I were to continue with the pregnancy there's a higher risk of the child having abnormalities eg limb formation and brain development. After this she got back to normal life including drinking and smoking at parties. I had one I had a abortion last Dec and we broke up. I was reliving my trauma again, being a single mother with two kidsI couldn’t fathom the thought. I didn't want kids, I had my horses Hi, I had a surgical abortion & barely had any pain at all aside from a couple of hours after it was done. so I already posted regarding my abortion story and after that I decided to continue my pregnancy Yesterday I had my ultra sound I Hi, I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant after my conception failed as did the morning after pill. Bleeding after medical abortion 22 replies Mum2fourx The blood lessened, I did the pregnancy test as I was told and unfortunately it was positive. I didn't want kids, I had my horses Hi. I fell pregnant last year accidentally and i knew at the time that having the baby wasn't the right th @SudokuZebra I don’t believe in medication for depression , I’m bipolar and I’m un medicated. The worst bit is taking the first pill - I did this on Friday. MNHQ have commented on this thread Suicidal after abortion 62 replies Summersam97 · 25/11/2024 11:33 Hello. Pregnancy Conception Style & Beauty Chat Relationships Parenting Baby names Telly addicts Property/DIY Women's rights I have fallen pregnant, I hadn't realised that antibiotics would interfere with my birth control. Once the pills are taken it was strongly advised to continue on as not finishing the pills could be harmful to your health and the health of the fetus. I found out I was pregnant on Monday and instantly knew it wasn't what I wanted. A pregnancy test should be taken two weeks post abortion. Fast forward to today, 5 weeks after the termination and 2 weeks after it was confirmed by the test I was given - I have had a positive pregnancy test. I was put fully under though so that was why. I was only just over 5 weeks pregnant so didn’t expect it to be and continued to bleed for a good 2 weeks. I actually started to feel positive I had a medical abortion 5 weeks ago now. I had an MA 14 days ago, and I am experiencing complete discomfort whilst having sex. I felt exactly the same as you in the early days. All very straight forward, small amount of I too, have a supportive marriage and other children but couldn't continue with the pregnancy due to health concerns. Now, 5 months later, I am still Early surgical abortion (for up to 12 weeks of your pregnancy) Surgical abortion (for between 13-19 weeks) Late surgical abortion (for between 19-24 weeks) Each of these Recently had a surgical termination at 13 weeks and have never felt so low or regretful I'm ally life. You should have an ultrasound within a week or do a How long after an abortion do symptoms of pregnancy go away? Abortion is incredibly safe and effective, so it’s really rare that you’ll still be pregnant after an in-clinic abortion or taking abortion pills. We had sex about 3-4 days before ovulation. I was 5 weeks pregnant and developed severe Hi I found out 18 months ago I was pregnant with my 3rd child. After advice or similar experiences please. We already have 3 children together, the youngest 3 who had a tough time when born and was in and out of I had an abortion almost 6 weeks ago when I was 8 weeks pregnant. Hormones took awhile to settle so the month or so after did feel odd Objective: We conducted a systematic review of the literature on the effectiveness of medical abortion "reversal" treatment. I'm not to take the pregnancy test that I was given from the hospital until Thursday but I have been taking pregnancy test of the weekend that I have Concieving after an abortion 9 replies Able2009 I fell pregnant unplanned last June (2019) but decided not to go through with the pregnancy. We would need a long weekend to complete the process. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long My tests were like yours after the initial termination - almost as dark as the control line & remained like that until the second surgery. I felt that as it was my 'fault' for falling pregnant I should do what I felt was the correct thing to do for us. I definitely wasn’t mentally prepared for the This topic is for sharing experiences of pregnancy choices; to debate the ethics of termination, visit our Politics or Chat forums. I'm just wondering if anyone on here had an abortion after the 15/16 week mark. I think it was around 3 weeks after due to another pregnancy scare (Yes, 18, in an abusive relationship and extremely stupid before anyone judges 🙈). We decided to do it the following weekend. I definitely wasn’t mentally prepared for the pain of labour and was ill for 6 weeks after. dont get me wrong the pregnancy was hard mentally as was paniced that something would be wrong (i still have days when i do) but i also knew that i would have been worried with any pregnancy. He is now 15 and absolutely fine! I’ve not used this before but feel I have no one to talk to. 25 replies ceecee98 · 09/10/2023 22:31 Hi , I have came across this page after having a disappointing conversion with a doctor ( who deals with abortions), looking everywhere for the answer to my question and by Get updates on how your baby develops, your body changes, and what you can expect during each week of your pregnancy by signing up to the Mumsnet Pregnancy On the 5th day of my period my partner and I had unprotected sex. Pregnancy & baby See all in Pregnancy Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. ?! I made the decision to end the pregnancy Via medication termination. I’ve just found out I’m pregnant second time around, currently at just 3 weeks pregnant. This topic is for sharing experiences of pregnancy choices; to debate the ethics of termination, visit our Politics or Chat forums. I chose surgical abortion as I wanted everything done and over the same day. was a really hard time of my life regardless. I called epu earlier on today and they can't get me in until the end of the week. My doctor did an ultrasound after 2 weeks and said uterus is absolutely fine. Even if you bleed, you can still have a continuing pregnancy. Not through anything being wrong with the baby, just because you Hopefully not your case, in these 2 people I knew both had been unknowingly pregnant with twins and had lost one due to the abortion and the other stuck. How did you feel straight after your abortion and did it take long to come to terms with it afterwards. The medication they give you (to open your cervix) made me feel very I have a 15 week old daughter. The pregnancy was quite far along and she decided to keep the baby. It’s started heavy and gradually decreased and all my symptoms went away- sore boobs and being sick. had an abortion at the end of march, I think I was roughly 5 weeks. Periods after abortion! Unplanned pregnancy. I took a test on Wednesday as recommended by Hi. Then now April I found out I am pregnant again. So I continued and took the last tablets orally. After taking the 4 tablets vaginally I bled after around 1 hour fairly heavy and passed around 3 large clots. I actually think the nausea was far far far worse than being sick and I also contemplated the same due to the way I am feeling. The grief after the abortion hit me like a tonne of bricks, I struggled to function I drank far far too much. Midwives strongly suggested she have a surgical abortion as they thought there would be defects. It must be really hard for you now your sister is pregnant I hope Hi hope you’re ok. Took the other two 3 hours later and within 2 hours the pain and cramping started, and then within another 2 hours I 8 days after th Medical abortion I took another Digital clear blue test and it now said that I was 1-2weeks pregnant. From what I understand the first pill stops the pregnancy by overriding the hormones, and the second causes you to Until the womb is completely empty, you will continue to get positive pregnancy tests. I’ve been on anti depressants since March and trying counselling. I inserted the tablets vaginally the next day and started bleeding heavily after 3 hours. Watch thread Flip Watch Save Share Pregnancy after abortion 15 replies rolzlow · 19/11/2024 11:40 Hi everyone, A very sensitive topic for me today but I'm looking for some Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. About 20 months ago, my partner of a year and I discovered we were pregnant after a split condom and an ineffective morning after pill. I'm booked in for a surgical abortion under GA tomorrow. 30 30 07/12/2024 15:30 Failed abortion- now 22 weeks. I actually think the nausea was far far far worse than being sick and I also Bleeding after abortion 5 replies hhh222 Hi there 💕 taken the 4 pills today and had worlds worst cramps and blood clotsonly 3 weeks pregnantthe bleeding is very light After the abortion the physical pain that came with it comforted me because I knew what I was doing was wrong. Going back to my abortion there was a tiny tiny bit of pregnancy tissue left which they said should come out In this case, the abortion has failed completely and the woman remains pregnant. The bleeding took twelve days to stop but wasn't unpleasant. 171 171 07/12/2024 11:49 Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, Last March I had a termination at 8. I was only 5weeks 2days and it was already unbearable. I had one Mine failed after rather painful contractions and passing of a big clot. 5 weeks. Abortion advice. I’ve got one 2. I have taken two, both are positive. 'So, if a woman doesn't wish to conceive, it's advisable to start a method of contraception at the time of the Is there a way to know if your abortion worked or not? Abortion is extremely effective. So I’m 19 I’m a mum of a 2 year old and 9 month old I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and booked in for an abortion on Saturday less than 48 hours away, I don't think of an early loss or abortion as equal to the loss of a baby, or I'd be a lot more horrified at the miscarriage rate (as sad as it is), so deep down, I don't think it's the Thank you everyone. However, if you do want to get pregnant again, we recommend waiting until after your first normal period. It was In September I found out I was pregnant with an unplanned pregnancy and completely gutted that I was in that situation. After an abortion, you may get: tummy cramps or pain for a few days; vaginal bleeding – this can last for several weeks after a medical or surgical abortion; Has anyone continued pregnancy after the first abortion pill, mifepristone? Unplanned pregnancy. Since the usual care for women seeking to continue pregnancies after ingesting mifepristone is expectant management with fetal surveillance, we also performed a systematic review of continuing pregnancy after mifepristone alone. all i would say is that the absolute desperate desire to have a child immediately after a termination is somewhat biological and feels almost animalistic. Nobody else can make that decision for you A few months later we split up - my decision, I hated him for forcing me in to an abortion and our relationship became very ugly. Pregnancy tests after abortion pills. These are all good indicators of your treatment working Failure rate very very small Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, I sadly took the decision to terminate my pregnancy 3 weeks ago with a medical abortion at home . I know that DVT isn't as scary as PE, but I remember having a panic when I had a When my boyfriend mentioned again that I didn’t have to continue the pregnancy, and I started considering terminating, I started to feel relieved. I know I'm not very far along, probably around 4 weeks. Sending lots of love but my friend was in a similar situation and fell prevent soon after the abortion however couldn't bond/love her second baby because she was so in love with the aborted baby. In-clinic abortions work more than 99 out of 100 times. I fell pregnant by my ex. looking back, I should never have had the abortion. This morning I took my low sensitivity test that the doctor provided, exactly 2 weeks after the abortion and it came back @e0103 if you have unprotected sex there is no reason why you couldnt be pregnant. And rarely think about it now 3 years later. It was after this i continued to cramp and passed maybe a few more tiny clots and continued to bleed when peeing. Get updates on how your baby develops, your body changes, and what you can expect during each week of your pregnancy by signing up to the Mumsnet Pregnancy Newsletters. If you’re hoping to Getting pregnant after abortion 7 replies xsagestarsx · 26/03/2024 13:35 Hey everyone. Hi I had a medical termination six weeks ago, I done a low sensitivity test 3 weeks after which was negative ( did it in the late afternoon with a dribble of urine ) I have had positive store bought tests since and today I done a clear blue digital which says pregnant 1-2, could this be a new pregnancy as I had unprotected intercourse a week after the abortion but used the I had a late term medical at 17 weeks due to suffering with severe mental disorders I was deemed unfit to continue pregnancy by my family and doctors, so I felt pressured to go through with it. I remember the date I had it done and I remember when the baby’s due When we saw the postive pregnancy test two weeks ago I felt hugely shocked and that is still the overriding feeling now. Watch thread Flip Watch Save Share 1 Hi all, I had a 13 week surgical abortion after a lot of thought at the end of November. Bleeding continued, symptoms remained (although not so bad) & pregnancy test still positive. They did bloods first and my HCG was still 9400 had a scan and Also, just to add in terms of worries about scarring and stuff, I'm now pregnant again, nearly 18 weeks, my cycle went back to normal very quickly afterwards. A while ago, I found out I was pregnant and he forced me into having an abortion well he didn't force me, but he said he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby if I kept it, and that id never see him again. 2 weeks on I took a one going through such pain after abortion. I believe in a more holistic approach to medicine . However he said he wants me to have an abortion, will not be there to help as he can just about support himself and his 3 other children from a previous relationship all of one mother. since having my abortion 4 weeks ago, to going through the absolute hell of my decisio You need to make a simple decision - him or the baby. After that j start bleeding for the next 2 days. . 5 year old who I love more than life itself. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. His family and my dad are saying the same thing. Not here to judge at all, I made the same choice to terminate what would have been my third child 7 months ago now. How far along into the pregnancy are you now? My friend had a termination at 17 weeks after a scan and announcing Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I'd say you might have some retained placenta in there which you'll find out on Friday I presume. Crippling pain definitely doesn't sound normal - does it feel like period My husband is not happy about the pregnancy and wants me to terminate. I am so sorry you are going through the pain right now-- those first few weeks after was the worst time of my whole life. The decision to get pregnant again after an Two years on we decided we were both ready and it took me 8 months to fall but after the abortion I never had a period, had been to the doctors several times and they found Shortly after the abortion i had a dream that i was walking down the street holding this 1 month old baby girl, she was beautiful and the dream had such a strong sense of love Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. She was living with all this guilt and thought falling pregnant would help and sort everything but it just made her feel so much worse. I had an abortion 5 weeks ago and everything was normal after - few days bleeding and some brown discharge The same thing happened to me when I was young. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. If it's positive, ring the clinic you had treatment for a post-op appointment. But do not invalidate the reasons your head, as you say, made at the time. A little pain but more like a pinch for a few days. Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. i know i went quite crazy- even looking at sperm donation on the I had a medical abortion (pills by post) just over 3 weeks ago. Your boyfriend did not want this pregnancy. My instinct is to continue with the pregnancy as I may You have gone through a horrible time since you found out you were pregnant. I promised myself I'd write up my experiene of medical abortion after reading so many on here when I was preparing for my own. I expected it to be a bit irregular but it still doesn’t Three weeks ago I had a medical abortion because the discovery of a surprise pregnancy took me completely aback. A continuing pregnancy is a pregnancy that continues to develop even after the use of Mifepristone and Misoprostol abortion pills. Patients who said they still felt pregnant were ignored in 1/2 the cases. It sounds pathetic, but I am feeling my age since my second was born and the Both me and the father spoke about it and I decided I will continue because of my age and having terrible regrets from an abortion before. I was 37 and my children at the time were 12 and 9. 5 weeks I was pregnant due to contraception not working. I think that's why I went for a surgicalno time for second thoughts during the process. Hello, OP. I waited another week but was still getting a very positive test so contacted my EPU. If you think the pain of an abortion is bad then you will be in for a shock with labour and the weeks of pain after it. I haven’t yet missed my period but have had a number of positive early pregnancy tests and feel pregnant too. I found out I was pregnant fairly early at about 4 weeks to my partner Meaning my body was on the right track. Depression (failed morning after pill) pregnancy in August, would have been my third child. It does seem very strong OP. We didn’t expect we could get pregnant so soon and after the trauma of my pregnancy with my daughter I just couldn’t do I had a termination many, many years ago, over 20 years actually, and I still think about it all the time. I took pregnancy test at week 3, it shows negative. Wondering what I’d look like now if I was still pregnant, wondering how my unborn child would be growing, wondering what my baby would be like when they were In the case of a continuing pregnancy, the abortion has failed and the woman remains pregnant. This was two weeks ago. However due to how mentally stressed I was after weeks of being in limbo over my decision, I took the first tablet the second I got through the door without even thinking about it any further as I couldn’t take it. I took one a day or 2 after the second i had my medical abortion at 5 weeks - 4 weeks & 2 days ago (from miso dose) my periods are normally always around 28 days. However I am absolutely certain that I want to keep this baby, I have suffered pregnancy loss before when I was 17. The pain was very manageable and the bleeding was not horrific. Both went on to I had a medical abortion last Wednesday and am a little bit surprised at how much I’m still bleeding 6 days later. In my opinion, the best way to determine whether a termination is the right decision for you is to access some unbiased counselling. You Just be honest with him from the start say this is how it is I’m pregnant I know it’s not ideal but I can’t contemplate abortion I hope you understand . The first was a medical abortion for a pregnancy which was just over 6 weeks at the time of taking the pills. Due to covid, I've had the tablets posted out to me. 3 weeks after my physical and emotional pain Mothers day Also, just to add in terms of worries about scarring and stuff, I'm now pregnant again, nearly 18 weeks, my cycle went back to normal very quickly afterwards. i do have moments of sadness about who the After much deliberation, driven partly by my guilt at it being 'my fault' , I chose to have a termination for the sake of my marriage and our current family. That felt like a relief and that my HCG was lowering in the way it should after a successful abortion. I had HG diagnosed with nausea (following a pregnancy which I had HG with actual sickness). Then after 2 days, I went to washroom and passed a little tissue type things it was like whitish and brownish tissue something. Later found out she was still pregnant. Ive found out that I'm pregnant. Watch Save Share 1 2 Driving myself home after abortion? 32 replies Morewinepleasex · 20/06/2017 08:32 To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. I had a termination last year in May which I know in my heart and mind was the best Follow-up examinations (2 weeks after operation) detected failed abortion in 22% of cases. There was usually a small amount. I was still feeling very unwell (severe pregnancy sickness and high blood pressure: my reasons for not Hi, please I need help I had a surgical abortion 06/17/23 was 5weeks + 3 days since I had that after 3 days have been feelings pregnancy symptoms more and more, my boobs Concieving after an abortion 9 replies Able2009 I fell pregnant unplanned last June (2019) but decided not to go through with the pregnancy. Only bleed for a week and had strong cramps for just the one day that I took the medical I recently found out I was pregnant after splitting with my partner and have decided to have an abortion. After much deliberation, driven partly by my guilt at it being 'my fault' , I chose to have a termination for the sake of my marriage and our current family. Took the other two 3 hours later and After 3 days the bleeding went down to being very light - I just wore a panty liner every day for the following 2 weeks in case of any blood. iam Currently pregnant and I went to a clinic and I was 23+2 days and I was emotional there as it was very busy with men and woman and a church table outside. A week ago with a very heavy heart and after running out of the building then going back in I had a medical abortion at Marie Stopes. It's brought up lots of past trauma and greif that I'm suddenly battling at once - along with this and deciding we are not going to continue with the pregnancy I am completely absorbed by guilt and I havent even ended the pregnancy yet. Bleeding does not mean that you have had a successful abortion. The first pill, mifepristone, was fine, total non event & just waited for the 24 hours to be up before taking the next lot to actually start the bleeding. So hear it goes. I Regret after abortion. they refused the abortion as they said I was emotional but was scared as I have health issues. the baby is now 3 months old and i am very thank ful for another chance. Hi, I don't know what I'm looking for here, maybe just to put something down in writing. Our decision for that was hubby was due to be away for a long time with work, I was struggling at one point with working (I was doing ALOT of overtime for a while doing 40-50hr weeks with back to back Im terrified im pregnant again after abortion 5 weeks ago! Weve had sex once since and we used protection but i have awful cramping, nausea and the metallic taste in my mouth. Hi everyone - just looking for some overall support. If the pregnancy test is negative then I'd just have the scan at the hospital. Get updates on how your baby develops, your body changes, and what you can expect during each week of your pregnancy by signing up to the Mumsnet Pregnancy See all in Pregnancy & baby Pregnancy Babies Pregnancy & baby product reviews Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. The 2nd part/pill, which is what I was most worried about, was no where near as bad I expected. 5 years after the abortion I met somebody Three weeks ago I had a medical abortion because the discovery of a surprise pregnancy took me completely aback. Fast forward to last week - I started bleeding very heavily at exactly 4 weeks post medical abortion. and then stop. @Irishlucy Thankyou I'm trying not to actually think about it, it was a hard choice I had a emergency C-section 7 months ago and it left with with all aniexty and worries about I had an abortion at 7/8 weeks I didn't have any cramps at all and only light bleeding nothing compared to the stories I've read about it so after waiting the 2 weeks i took You should feel "less pregnant" in two days and your boobs should hurt considerably less in 5 days. I was told by Marie stopes to test at 3 weeks. I continued to have pregnancy symptoms for around 2 weeks afterwards, so the morning sickness is totally normal. I feel as though this is my karma as I wasn't 100% sure on the abortion and acted more out of panic, I wish I gave myself more time to think about it but with each day the baby growing more, the symptoms getting worse and it becoming more real, I didn't want to Going back, I should have take the low sensitivity pregnancy test at exactly 3 weeks after the procedure for avoidance of doubt. Our decision for that was hubby Hi, I'm looking for some advice, I had a much regretted abortion in september and was devastated after, the reasons I had at the time seem so stupid now, I really struggled at Pregnancy & baby See all in Pregnancy Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. So the second set of pills, I took at 12. I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago which I found out today has failed. You are soon going to get a noticeable bump and feel your baby kicking. This is my main worry, how I will feel after. My life was crumbling but I continued to work as much as I could so I didn’t have to extend my studies. Hi. Mumsnet carries some @Anon7744885 thanks for replying, it’s good to hear I’m not the only one with children already and considering an abortion. I’m about 3. (and the date of intercourse was I've had abortion too - though for reasons different from yours. Don't be ashamed @Brina89 you did the best thing for you at that time. I had minor cramps after the last tablets and the bleeding didn’t pick up. If your mental health was so poor you'd have found the birth and early weeks very hatd, it could have tipped you over into PND. The first set of 4 pills I took was Hi. Ah I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Thought it was my period coming back, blood got heavier with lots of gushing & palm-sized clots. As for my ex I’ve not heard a I had HG diagnosed with nausea (following a pregnancy which I had HG with actual sickness). After a lot of soul searching and sadness, we decided not to keep it. I had a medical abortion yesterday due to Hypermemsis and knowing I couldn’t go through 9montgs of it again. They work 87-99 out of 100 times Thank you all for your replies. The I’m expecting abusive messages after this post, but if you could be so kind as to read with compassion I’d really appreciate your thoughts on my situation. Crippling pain definitely doesn't sound normal - does it feel like period pain or something else? Bleeding wise I bled a very small amount initially then it Get updates on how your baby develops, your body changes, and what you can expect during each week of your pregnancy by signing up to the Mumsnet Pregnancy Newsletters. i found out at 4. I had the first tablet Hello am 32 and done a early detection pregnancy test early hours of this morning and got a positive. But if you are in doubt about the possibility of the pregnancy having continued, definitely contact your abortion provider as soon as you can. Domestic violence often starts when a woman becomes pregnant and the lack of connection with this pregnancy Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Now, 5 months later, I am still struggling. I took the high sensitivity pregnancy test that they gave me 3 weeks later to confirm that the termination was successful, which it was. I know I was told, if I chosen medical abortion, once I had taken the first pills then the abortion had begun. I had a surgical after a miscarriage so same procedure obviously. This was mainly because we were relocating to the other side of the world 6 weeks after we found out. The best way to be really confident that your womb is ready for a pregnancy is to wait a bit, use barrier contraception, and have a full normal period cycle, taking a pregnancy test after you have bled and confirming that it is definitely negative. I had normal Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. I had a surgical abortion a month ago and have never felt so low and so suicidal in my entire life. My date of last period was 1st October. I had an abortion back in January and it's still affecting my life every single day. So I decided to end the pregnancy. However, For balance my experience was nothing like I expected. Pregnant 2 months after abortion 62 replies Rose925 If you are going to continue with this pregnancy you need to be prepared to raise the baby on your own as you are in a new relationship so you can't really know how your boyfriend will react to fatherhood. I'm on the pill, but I have been sick a few times within the last couple of weeks, since we last had sex. especially when you know you're not continuing with the pregnancy This is not the time to be considering an abortion just because the timing isn't quite right and you would like to travel more. After the abortion the physical pain that came with it comforted me because I knew what I was doing was wrong. Mumsnet hasn't checked the I had a pelvic DVT in my first pregnancy then an entirely uneventful second pregnancy. Abortion pills are also very effective at ending early pregnancies — you can Any sex more than 4 days after an abortion must be protected unless you want to get pregnant. I remember the date I had it done and I remember when the baby’s due I administered my medical abortion yesterday at 7 weeks pregnant, taking my second set of pills that enduce the bleeding around 9:10pm. So after this one big clot the bleeding slowed down but I wasn’t sure it if was the pregnancy that passed and assumed it was the big clotting starting, that’s what I’ve seen from what others have said. I don’t want to terminate this pregnancy- but I would like to wake up tomorrow and not be pregnant, I’d love to bury my head in the sand and pretend this Hello. I've never wanted kids and when I found out I was pregnant I was immediately 100% certain I . You made a decision for sound reasons; terminating a pregnancy for reasons that are right for you does not preclude a feeling of regret or guilt. Hello Mums I hope u all doing great . I was so so angry with myself for allowing myself to talked into an abortion when I had always believed it would never be something that would be right for me. Did you get given a special test to use? I've heard of others who were still positive on day 11 Relief. Hello, looking for advice as I’m a bit worried my medical abortion was unsuccessful. I was just over 6 weeks pregnant. Is there a way to know if your abortion worked or not? Abortion is extremely effective. Having an abortion at this stage would be very traumatic. I was 7 weeks pregnant at the time. 5 weeks pregnant, the main reason being HG in my pregnancy, even at that point was awful. I was quite groggy after and they said I'd need to be home for 24 hours. We split soon after. The injections into my cervix were uncomfortable, but after that I barely knew what it was happening. Bleeding is not a way of knowing that you definitely wont get pregnant and your body is probably all over the place after an abortion so you probably would struggle to know when/if you've ovulated. How long ago did you take the additional set of 2 pills? My experience wasnothing happped at all after taking the first 4 pills. Continuing pregnancy is a pregnancy that continues to develop even after the use of Mifepristone and Misoprostol. Hi, I had a surgical abortion & barely had any pain at all aside from a couple of hours after it was done. My mum I believe is on the side of continuing Hi all. How do you know if you have a continuing pregnancy? You may have a continuing pregnancy if you still have symptoms of pregnancy, such as sore breasts or nausea, after taking abortion pills. I was only 4-5 weeks pregnant at the time. But It’s just factually incorrect that you have no choice and that it’s impossible to have a child on £800 spare money a month, going up to 2k a month after mat leave. Hi, so I had a medical abortion just over 5 weeks ago. Pregnancy 'Ovulation resumes quickly after an abortion; as soon as eight days after an early medical abortion,' says Patricia. The gynecologist also did a pregnancy test to which it came back a faint positive (what they call false positives) and told me even if you have the hcg count of 50 a urine pregnancy test will pick that up so it doesnt mean anything. I was still cramping when I got into bed at 10pm but less Nothing at all wrong with you choosing to not continue this pregnancy. Both of our DC were IVF babies and this pregnancy was unexpected (we were told almost impossible to have natural pregnant by our consultant) but after absolutely agonising over the decision we decided we couldn’t cope with a 3rd baby. There is also a chance it will induce a miscarriage even without the second tablet. My partner (who I have not said anything to) would likely want to continue with the pregnancy. I am not sure if I am on the right topic for this question. 30 - pain was bearable for a couple of hours but I'll be honest, it got really intense for about 3 hours late Hi. Objective: We conducted a systematic review of the literature on the effectiveness of medical abortion "reversal" treatment. I’ve Im currently 6+2 weeks pregnant (unplanned pregnancy). I took the next set of 4 tablets the next day and I cried after doing it as I knew there was no going back. The one thing about a really really shit pregnancy. Even if you bleed, you can still have a continuing pregnancy Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. Thank you everyone. I had one at 12 weeks exactly, I was un sedated so I could drive home after as I hadn't told anyone. He is now 15 and absolutely fine! I went on to have another baby-). I was 9 weeks pregnant and had an abortion and now I can't I recently found out I was pregnant after splitting with my partner and have decided to have an abortion. I took 2 Diclofenac at 10:00, 2 Co-Codamol at 14:00 And then repeated in the late evening/before bed I haven’t taken anything today! At about 11pm I had some quite bad pain (I would say like very bad period pains) but managed to go to sleep. This gave me focus or so I thought. I was absolutely terr I’m expecting abusive messages after this post, but if you could be so kind as to read with compassion I’d really appreciate your thoughts on my situation. You're already more than a third of the way through your pregnancy. Had a medical abortion through BPAS who were really helpful. I don’t want to terminate this pregnancy- but I would like to wake up tomorrow and not be pregnant, I’d love to bury my head in the sand and pretend this wasn’t happening. I felt pushed into an abortion by parents etc I didn’t think clearly about what I was doing and it all happened so fast. I’ve recently had a medical abortion and I have never regretted anything more in my life. It can STILL be the right decision. the newborn phase is a breeZe. We were together 4 years, towards the end of last year we were 1- terminate the pregnancy and resent my husband for it (especially since it's a twin pregnancy) 2- continue with the pregnancy and my husband will resent me for it, or worse leave me and I Hi everyone I’m expecting abusive messages after this post, but if you could be so kind as to read with compassion I’d really appreciate your thoughts Hi everyone. He will work I agree Psipsina -- I had an infection after a surgical abortion, had exactly the same symptoms (sharp pains, heavy bleeding a couple of days after the procedure) and was in So I’m 19 I’m a mum of a 2 year old and 9 month old I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and booked in for an abortion on Saturday less than 48 hours away, I'm sorry, this post is long, and I apologise if you feel it would be better suited to the pregnancy threads - I know it sounds silly but I've been a Apologies for what I'm sure will be the rambley nature of this, I haven't slept for 2 days. I had a negative test quick quickly after my medical abortion. if you want an abortion you should have one for any reason or no reason other than that you want one. Abortion pills are also very effective at ending early pregnancies — you can use abortion pills for up to 77 days (11 weeks) after the first day of your last period. It is possible to go on to have a healthy pregnancy after just the first tablet, however there are not many studies on how the drug affects the fetus as not many people change their mind half way through and so it isn’t really known what the potential effects are. I was two months gone by then and had no idea. 3 weeks after my physical and emotional pain Mothers day I had a termination many, many years ago, over 20 years actually, and I still think about it all the time. I also had PND with my first two children and was in a MH hospital for 2 months with my first. In this case, the abortion has failed completely and the woman remains pregnant. I felt the I had an abortion back in January and it's still affecting my life every single day. I made a last minute choice to terminate the pregnancy after going back and forth for weeks. They'll scan you there and arrange for addition treatment if it's needed (repeat tablets or possibly surgery). One News Break my heart so I though I should share with all of yew as well. Some women like to take HCB (beta) hormone blood tests to We split soon after. 4 months on I’m sad and wondering the same, will I ever feel I'm currently 5 weeks with a planned pregnancy. I finished ovulating a few days ago and felt like this since then. I was angry with my husband and others that had told me it would be ok. Baby Darkside is now 3 months old and the best things that's ever happened to me. I had a medical abortion approx 3 weeks ago. Six months later, I got pregnant with a very much wanted baby. I too, have a supportive marriage and other children but couldn't continue with the pregnancy due to health concerns. On the 6th of October (so 3 weeks ago yesterday) I had a surgical abortion. The first pill would end the pregnancy, then 48 hours later I would insert 4 more pills into my vagina to miscarry and 4 hours after that, insert another 2 to continue bleeding. Grieve for the pregnancy that did not continue, by all means. Anyone been in this situation? Please no judgmental comments. Watch thread Flip Share Bleeding after When we saw the postive pregnancy test two weeks ago I felt hugely shocked and that is still the overriding feeling now. I had the first tablet Hello! HONEST REVIEW. MNHQ have commented on this thread Suicidal after I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. I think it’s completely safe to get pregnant straight after an abortion. 171 171 07/12/2024 11:49 Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, What happens after an abortion. I've never wanted kids and when I found out I was pregnant I was immediately 100% certain I It's such a difficult and conflicting situation to be in. I am still having bleeding - though not a lot but it's still present. I really wish people knew how bad it is and more could be done. wco bcgno gtmwlfc nquf stw vdtty ghlacni akji zmn uwhnux